From The Black Belt Book of Life: Secrets of a Martial Arts Master.
Action and reaction;
Cause and consequence.
It is no mystery that Competence Creates Confidence.
Reason’s whole pleasure, all the joys of sense,
Lie in three words—Health, Peace, and Competence.
Nothing creates confidence more than competence. Telling someone they’re good
at something, giving them pats on the back, kisses on the cheek, big hugs and
positive words of how great they are don’t, nor can’t, build true confidence.
Only competence creates confidence.
As a follow-up to the KIA article
Kylee Perez — Warrior With Glove &
Grace, the Pac-12
Network has created a terrific YouTube video recognizing the UCLA senior
softball standout and her battle with Type 1 Diabetes. Kylee’s story is an
inspiration for all people afflicted with T1D.
Thanks, Kylee! You’re a great inspiration and role model! And thank you Pac-12
Network for your wonderful video tribute.
When we think of self-defense, it is fair to say that the most common
perception is of an assailant attacking us as we defend ourselves with our
martial arts skills. Such a scenario comes within the milieu of external
self-defense.
However, how often do we consider defending ourselves from ourselves? Answer:
not often, if ever. Yet, defending ourselves from our own selves via bad
judgement and foolish behaviors can, arguably, be the most critical
application of self-defense. Learning to protect ourselves from ourselves fits
into the category of internal self-defense or defending ourselves from the
“inside out” rather than the “outside in.”
There are warriors, and then there are warriors with a glove. There are
athletes, and then there are athletes with grace. Kylee Perez, star second
baseman and undisputed Senior leader of the historically vaunted UCLA Bruins
Women’s Softball team, is both a warrior with a glove and an athlete with
grace. For Kylee Perez, glove and grace go hand in hand.
In unadulterated sports speak, Kylee Nicole Perez is an absolute stud. Her
high school and collegiate careers are a cornucopia of leadership,
championship success and achievement—scholastic and athletic. Not only did she
earn Scholar Athlete awards all four years at Alhambra High School in
Martinez, California, she lettered in both baseball and basketball, was Most
Valuable Player for three straight seasons, helped her team to four Diablo
Foothill Athletic League titles and ended her high school career with a gaudy
.590 hitting percentage, 42 homers, 139 RBI and 71 steals. Pretty average,
right? Wrong! Way wrong!